Stress, what stress?

Wow, what a day.  James was having issues the last couple days.  And so he was not able to go into work.  I know that my complaining about work and situations didn't help his stress, but he is my go to person.  So, he was supposed to go into work to "talk about his job" but that only made his anxiety worse.  So he wasn't able to go in.  the boss asked him to call her. 

Well james is a bit upset  and not sure if he can do it, he knows that he will be getting lectured on texting in sick, not calling, but for him, that is all that we can do.   So he emails me.  I call him on my lunch and we talk.  He is good, have him choices and options:

1: he calls and gets it over and done with.
2: he comes into town and we go in together, I don't talk, just sit there.
3: he waits till I get home then we use two phones and we call together.

And just let me know what option.  He calls me at work, he is upset.  they fired him. What!?!?!??!.  I can't believe that. 

There is sooo much about it that I just don't have time to write it all down.  But it's bull! Now, how is that going to help him? They don't understand or care to.  So frustrating. 

I don't want to work their anymore either, and was thinking that a bit ago, but where do I go?  Can I get it in time for the next chq?

Then there is the revenge side, I want to get them back, and just not show, but I am so stressed over the wait, that it's not working so well.  I wand rd monday off to spend with my kids anyways, but didn't think it would go this way.

We do have the bills paid for this month.  But somehow they still haven't paid james all his hours paid  but say they have three time, so docted his pay once more for 23hrs.  So now we have the fight of getting his hours fixed up.  I still haven't gotten my IT, and looks like the only way that I will is by taking them to labor standards.  I have tried and tried to get it.  Not sure how much more I can ask and prove the rule in alberta, they are different than other provinces and countries. 

Sooo, frustrating!

I am so tense and stressed out right now that I am causing a migraine!  Blah!

What am I being tested for now?  Why is life so hard?  Can't we catch a small break?  Just so thats James can learn to be in those situations and deal?  Is that to much to ask for?  Of course winning the lottery does work too :-) 

I need to deal so I can sleep.  But not sure which way I need to go to deal.

:-(